The life events management. Technology

The model

Thought (idea, image, belief, etc.) -> Compliance with the thought in mind -> Making the circumstances in real life, supporting the idea adopted (implementation of the idea, its reflection in the mirror of the material world).

Thought (image) in mind, contains information about itself, the world around us, people, laws, events. The presence of such thoughts and agreement with them runs the process of building a reality for each individual with its own set of mental images.

A child, being born, immediately gets into the society, that has a fairly complete set of opinions (thoughts, images) about everything, with what he might encounter in life. So, the effect of thoughts of individuals in the world is insignificant. Everybody think and look at themselves and the world around the similar way, and thus transmit these views to children from the first hours of their lives. Breakthroughs are rare and are associated with total rejection of stereotypes in any area. However, everyone has the opportunity to arrange their lives according to their discretion and without prejudice to others.

The idea (thought, image) is a starting point for all processes in the world. It, as a command, encourages us to act one way or another and the world to adapt, according to its content. From thoughts everything begins. Thoughts (or images) that are already in the mind, or are kept there now, define the scenario of life - the composition and sequence of events that happen and will happen in the future. What we think now that we have in the aftermath.

Changing the script – it's like a transfer from train to train. Each train is going in a different direction with its speed. Interchange stations (the ability to change your life) gets more and more with a decrease in the number and strength of dependences. The image of the train, where you are now, is the current life' scenario with its circumstances, goals, objectives, expectations. Only being ready to part with some object of affection in this scenario, you get the opportunity to change seats on another train - generally the same, but without any of what had passed. The older people become, the harder they part with their attitudes, beliefs and principles. Consequently, the less chance they have to change something, to learn new features. About this it's said: become like children...

Laws

Balance. Everything is in balance or strives for it. Dependence generate imbalance (mental or physical effort attached to anything, to the detriment of its opposite). The equilibrium forces seek to compensate for the imbalance. Dependence of a large number of people (religious movements, ideologies, fashion, etc.) is also sources of power imbalances, which, sooner or later, will be replaced by their opposites. But within this stream of followers of an idea it's created its own (local) temporary equilibrium, so the obstruction of that flow is inefficient and remains two ways - either comply or be destroyed. Only one way out: to be in the system, execute its laws, but do it consciously (i.e., understand what you're doing, for what reasons, and for what purpose).

Action and reaction. Action causes an equal and opposite reaction. This is a consequence of the Law of Balance. If we prevent the development of the script (selected by ourselves), or customize it, the resistance appears.

Movement (also, a consequence of the law of equilibrium). Everything moves (toward the equilibrium state). Man is always in one or another stream (the script). If he prevents or customizes it, the equilibrium force compensates his impact. You can move from stream to stream by changing your attitude to what is happening (this is a change in the script).

Similarity. All phenomena in the world of mind and material world constructed and run by the same laws.

Typical algorithms

Usually we do so:

It's really needed to get something (the result, the thing) -> Mentally you pull the desired to yourself (forming a dependence) -> Equilibrium forces compensate the impact by pulling desirable from you -> Wish not be obtained.

You want to avoid something very much - >Mentally you push it away (forming a dependence) -> Equilibrium forces compensate the impact by pushing it back to you -> So, we get that, what we try to avoid.

This way is more effective:

It's really needed to get something (the result, the thing) -> At the same time, you mentally push away the desired -> Dependences are not formed - >Equilibrium forces do not oppose -> Wish comes true by itself, because there are no interferences to the choice that have made.

You want to avoid something very much -> Mentally allow this to happen, accept such a result -> Dependences are not formed - > Equilibrium forces do not oppose -> what you want to avoid, passes by.

Necessary and sufficient conditions

Or what to do in order to cultivate (or, rather, return) the ability to manage the events of life.

• Watch your thoughts, emotions and actions in order to practice of their on-line awareness (i.e., notice them at the time of occurrence, rather than later, doing psychoanalysis). To observe (watch) but not to control or manage. Observation of thoughts, emotions and actions let us identify mental dependences, which were formed sometime and is now acting on their own (not recognized), determining what happens in life.

• Perceive with the same feelings the possibility of diametrically opposed results of events. This happens by itself as monitoring of affections. Having realized the dependence to some result - the dependence disappears, the result is no more and no less willed than its alternatives. About this they say: do not judge...

• Doing something, do not forget to do the opposite (Osho). It's additional valuable reminder about affections (dependences).

• Do not worry about the past and about the future, be present in the present. The present creates the future. Those images that are in mind now define life events in the future. They will be reflected by the mirror of the material world in the form of new circumstances. The past - it is already archived. It's helpful to consider for understanding the present, but no more.

• Assume full responsibility for your life. Do not blame, do not load obligations, but only realize that life is just what you ordered through your thoughts, images and beliefs. And once you (not someone else and not some forces) ordered (formed) circumstances of the life which are unnecessary for now, you may fix everything, re-ordered other things, which will be necessary.

• Your teachers should be only your own mind, your feelings and your own body. All articles in this blog devoted to the idea. All the best, most effective, all the tools and methods have been given to us originally, you just have to drop all superficial, alien and start listening to yourself. Mental dependences are the only obstacle on the way to yourself.

• Abandon beliefs, principles and positions. In other words, do not create of mental dependences, be flexible and open to the new. Even be willing to give up from your worldview, if it starts to interfere with the development and learning of new.

• Refuse to learn how to manage your life. Let things take their course.

The latter - it's not a typo. Once we are interested in this topic, it is likely, we had the affection for it. And if there is a mental dependence, then the result is not achievable or will take a long way and overcome significant hurdles (the path of Alchemy). Therefore, to obtain, it must be abandoned.

Recognizing yourself as the author of your own life and getting rid of mental dependences (idealizations), or, in other words, with increasing awareness, you open up for new possibilities in managing of your life. First of all, the state of mind becomes more comfortable – stresses are less, life is brighter and more varied, relationships with others are more positive and interesting. Then, physical condition of the body gets better. Old diseases go away, new ones do not appear. As a consequence, appear new opportunities for self-realization in the material world. Opportunities that have always been close, but were hidden by a veil limiting attitudes and beliefs.

The life events management. Problem statement

It's time to compile and organize a little what has been said up to this moment.

Let's start with the question of the problem:

What are the laws of the life events creation and how to apply them in practice? In other words, how to consciously control the events of our lives?

Data (tools):

Mind, images, thoughts, feelings, emotions, affection (dependence), mindfulness, unawareness, mental setup, material world.

Definitions:

Reason (mind) - our personal tool of choice, receiving, storing, processing and issuance of information (thoughts). Conventionally, the Mind is divided into two parts: the consciousness - where the existence and content of thought is realized (we know what we think about, what information own and others), and the subconscious - where there are thoughts and images that are not recognized (we do not know what they are there, and, accordingly, can not use them). In the creation of life events are equally involved and the consciousness and subconsciousness.

Closely related concepts: the cinema, because thoughts and images that fill the mind, as the film frames, are projected by the mind and reflected on the screen of the material world in the form of life situations pictures.

Thoughts - information that fills the mind.

Image (mental image) - a set of interconnected thoughts, forming an idea of "as is" or "how it should be".

Closely related concepts: mental images, stereotypes, the pattern of thinking, principle of life, worldview, ideology, a set of norms and rules, attitudes, beliefs, opinion, etc.

Affection (dependence) - a mental effort to retain or repulsion Thoughts (mental image, information, knowledge, attitudes, beliefs, life principle and other concepts, similar to thoughts and images). An emotional dependence to the object is an indicator of affection presence. Affection creates its opposition. Affections are formed like muscle reflexes. Repeated mental stress on the acceptance or rejection of the situation (information, mode of action, opinion, etc.) is stored and subsequently played back automatically.

Closely related concepts: focus on the idea, thought, belief, focus, faith (in the traditional sense), reverence, worship.

Feeling – an indicator displaying difference between the image recorded in the Mind, from the image appeared in the real world. There are only two Feelings: the acceptance and rejection. If the image in the mind corresponds to what eyes see, ears can hear, there is a sense of consent, acceptance or positive feeling. Otherwise - the feeling of rejection. Range - from absolute acceptance (e.g., love), to an absolute rejection (e.g., hatred).

Emotions - interpretation in words and concepts of various degrees of mentioned above two senses: acceptance and rejection. I.e., emotions - it's the feelings, the nuances of which have names. For example, a strong rejection – hate, the weak - discontent, strong acceptance - love, the weak - the approval, consent, etc.

Awareness (mindfulness) - knowing which attitudes, thoughts, images, etc. there are now in the mind and create the appropriate events.

Unconscious (unawareness) - not knowing what is there in the mind and what the consequences and actions are initiated by this content.

Mental setup – the mental image, but with affection (dependence). Over time, mental setups go into the subconscious, i.e., they become unconscious programs that create the life events.

Material world - the screen on which images that fill the mind are projected.

Closely related concepts: a mirror (as the material world reflects the image that are in the Mind), clay (because it is only the stuff that is taking shape, according to our ideas about this shape.

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The most effective diet

It's one of the most used topics we can imagine.

However, from the point of view on a man, as having inherent ability to build his life as he wishes, there is something to add.

On the one hand, people have a thousand options of diets. Techniques, recipes, meal schedules etc. are offered by traditional science, people's experience and esoteric practices.

But what's the difference between them?

In fact, there're no differences. Only sets of products and graphics of use differ. It's a simple combinatory.

There's one thing in common in all diets - someone they can help, and someone not.

On the other hand, we have a body, filled with feelings and desires (here we talk about feelings and desires associated only with food).

It's hard to believe, that God, nature or evolution, whatever, made our bodies with the complex physical, chemical and other processes occurring in them, didn't care about natural (and, if possible, simple) signaling mechanisms that encourage individuals to take into any necessary nutrients (food).

And this signaling mechanism exists. And, as always, it's well known and lies on the surface. First of all, it's a desire to eat something or hunger. Second, the desire to eat this or that product, which is chosen by tastes of people. Everyone knows that one likes a potato and the other does not eat it, someone likes green, but someone cannot live without meat. From these two things a timetable and set of products are composed. And, this schedule and set dictated not by strangers, who have not seen, studied, taken tests, and didn't do other things with us, but someone who is the closest, native and honest with us - our body.

Therefore, as the starting thesis of the most effective diet will be this one – we can eat, when we want, and what we want. After all, the choice makes our body - a complex physical-chemical mechanism, striving for balance and self-healing.

The question, how much to eat, when to stop, also has the answer: the hunger - that's the stop-signal in the process of eating. And if we observe our feelings during the meal, we will be surprised how little your body needs to use food for one meal.

Moreover, turning away from strangers advice and turned to our body (for which, in fact, all these efforts to comply with diets and regimes are taken), we can develop our sensitivity to such a level that the body will tell us what it wants at the moment. There may be a clear desire to eat, for example, tomatoes. That's a hint - the body which is better than us and, moreover, other people, knows, what substances he did not have enough, point us in sensations to desired product. This desire may even be accompanied by a flavor that arises in the mouth, as if we already eat it.

You need only to believe your body and begin to learn very attentive to its signals. And not a month passes, as the body responds to us striking, but gladdening changes.

Another subsidiary thesis, in case it's still difficult to catch the signals of the body, but you really want to lose weight, is as follows - primarily, the body accumulates what it lacks now or may need in the future. In the case of adipose tissue - a power supply, this is formed when a person is under the effects of increasing stress. To understand the causes of stress is necessary, but it may take some time, and you can start to give the body what it is trying to gain - the adipose tissue. I.e. eat foods containing adipose tissue in pure form – bacon, etc. On the personal experiences, within two weeks of this "diet" the body not only has ceased to accumulate fat, but almost completely got rid of the existing ones. The logic is simple: why to collect it when it in abundance comes from food?

I can not say that diets, researches in this field are not needed. More than half of the people don't want to have anything in common with some sort of the body signals. And the remaining half faces a very serious work on self-development, that is the most difficult job in human history. Thus, diets, medications, etc., everything that comes from the outside rather than inside (from the body, the soul, the mind), are needed at least for the survival of man as a species. This choice, of course, makes it impossible to fully realize their potential, but it allows, as already mentioned, at least survive for a short period and have time to leave progeny.

World is an illusion?

In many philosophical works we often find phrase that the outside world is an illusion. There's something right there in that phrase and it felt even without evidence. However, nowhere it's explained why? What part of this world is illusory, but what is real? What happens when we'll understand the unreality of the world? The walls become transparent? It will be possible to materialize things out of nothing? Maybe so, but it is not fundamental, it is possible side effects. The main thing is in another.

World is a scenery. Moreover, the scenery provided for all occasions for each person and for each moment of time. There is infinite space of sceneries, which appears only one set, which selected by any one person. The choice of this particular person is adjusted, so that the set of decorations of HIS world does not conflict with the choice of OTHER single people and communities. Therefore, desire does not fulfill immediately, and not so radically change everything all around - the world (as a combination of each of the people worlds) should "adapt" to agree all possible "conflicts of interest."

Even such a "fantastic" world is still not an illusion. So what is there illusory in it?

Taking certain outlook on life, forming views (complexes and stereotypes), we, in fact, invent your own world, creating its description. And the scenery fits to description. Invention the world - this is an illusion. Set in the theater - is also part of the illusion, everything is not for real, though scenery themselves are real. But in our own, in such a multidimensional world, Mega Theater, everything is not for real. We also write the scripts, play the roles...

The descriptions of the world that we live in today are quite narrow. There are several physical laws, but thousands of psychological constraints – that's framework of our world. Hence the set of scenarios of life is very limited. With some degree of approximation, human characters and their life paths can be placed in a little more than a dozen typical variations.

Therefore, the world is not an illusion, but an infinite reality. But the fundamental system of our views on the world is an illusion. And they will never be comprehensive, and, therefore, will be distorted. But to avoid getting stuck in development, we should always remember the illusory nature of the current world picture and the prospects for expanding our understanding (adoption) of new ones. And than, perhaps, all sorts of "miracles" will become a reality.

The end of the world. To be or not be?

The year 2012 is approaching. According to forecasts, it's the next end of the world. So, will it be or not?

The answer to this question is: it depends form our decision.

We choose our own future from an infinite number of scripts written for us and given us in management. Man was originally conceived as a creator, ruler and manager of the Earth. This is written on the front pages of the Bible and can be traced in all religious and philosophical writings in the world. The only thing we overlook is the fact that management is not destruction and remaking, real management is to choose among scenarios given to us. The choice is determined by the images that we create in our minds.

Sustained mindset shifts the course of events in the implementation of this image in the outside world. Therefore, if one is afraid of anything for a long time, it will certainly happen. When we sure in something, circumstances supporting this belief will gradually arise.

Slowly, for the most part unconsciously, we create our reality in accordance with our views on it.

End of the world - it was originally just an idea. We fill the content of this idea. The content is mainly connected with various natural disasters. Apparently, it's because of our history - floods, earthquakes, earthquakes, Egyptian darkness, smashing lightning, etc.

The idea of doomsday is not new. More and more people admit the possibility of its realization. But in order to attract the event in our life, it's just needed to keep in mind the image of this event and do not want to make it happen.

During the period of unrest and social changes moods of people is not so joyful. And then people recall the idea of doomsday. Everyone waited for this event in 1999! But no disaster had happened, everything passed by.

It had passed, but not quite. We can see how the world has changed after the millennium. At times the number of natural and technological disasters increased, the ghost of terrorism in Top News for ten years, and people do such things as if the end of the world had occurred in their minds. In other words, the Earth is alive, but there is a change for the worse.

These changes are the result of expectations of people, those images that are associated with the end of the world and the manifestation of which was expected by many of them in the late 20 th century. But, fortunately, people are still bad managers of the life and anything irreparable had not happened.

However, the next date of the end of the world can gather more people who see changes and increasingly admitting that the world is heading for the abyss. A massive mood is a great power.

For centuries, the followers of all faiths, without exception, used the collective practice of forming mental images of events that they want to attract into their life. This is done now - the mass prayers in temples, chants, etc. However, now it's not more than just rituals, devoid of understanding of the process. Goals, objectives and technology of these practices have been lost. The main condition for realization of mental images - this is not to be tied to the result, not feel any emotions about what you want. But, now, religious activities, mostly accompanied by very strong emotions. And when we react emotionally - it means there is binding, dependence. Dependence give rise to tension and stress gives rise to equilibrium forces that seek to neutralize the object and the subject of stress. If you want something ardently - you never get it, and most likely get the reverse. Today, only the eastern practices are most close to efficient. They use the so-called meditative state of mind and soul. However, even here, many people fall into error - a state of meditation had become the aim, although it is just a tool, an intermediate stage in the algorithm of forming ideas.

Nevertheless, successfully or not, but people may influence to reality through mental images. A group of like-minded people reinforce this effect many times. "Again, I tell you that if two of you on earth agree about anything you ask for, it will be done for you by my Father in heaven, For where two or three come together in my name, there am I with them..." (Matthew 18).

So, everything depends on us, unreasonable creators of the universe. No wonder it is said: "They do not know what they do." But in this phrase was omitted the word and, as a result, we got a completely different meaning. It says about a man who is not create something, or does some bad things and don't understand what is it happening, but, literally, creates – or this man is in the process of creation. And creativity is a process that takes place in the mind ‑ the process of forming mental images which are translated in reality. Thus, the phrase should sound like this: "They do not know what they are doing a reality."

Human

Man is made up of thoughts, feelings and body. Everything that happens in the human mind is reflected in his body and life events. The surrounding world only reflects the images that live in the mind of man. Feelings either contribute or hinder the realization of thoughts.

Obvious things don't cause any special feelings and emotions, and because of this they are either already implemented or ready for implementation. The presence of feelings or emotions in relation to anything is a manifestation of affection, or, at worst - dependence. Affection is not durable. The stronger the affection, the faster they are destroyed.

The idea, in fact, is the choice of a scenario or life event. The idea, adopted by the mind as a fact, without emotion, it is a program that eventually leads to its realization. For example, the idea that the fall and spring, people get sick (during the so-called epidemics), adopted as a fact, leads to the fact that most people really sick. If one experience the fear of epidemics or try to interfere with potential disease, then the probability of becoming ill will make almost one hundred percent.

Feelings and emotions - is an indicator of the presence and strength of affection. Strong love is a strong affection. Strong hate is also strong affection. The sign is not important, the existence of emotions and their power are important. Neutral attitude is lack of affection.

Emotions reflect only two movements of the soul - acceptance and rejection, yes or no, consent or dissent.

Faith, as the choice of life experience

People think they believe only in what they know, see, what is experienced. In fact, everything is quite the opposite. Man - is the creator, from the beginning, and this function no one deprived. Therefore, we unwittingly, we see, we know, we experience only what we believe.

By faith we receive. First is faith, then goes the experience. Experience is what we believe in for whatever reasons.

Knowledge - is not a faith. Knowledge - is a consequence of faith. In what we believe - that we know. Therefore, knowledge, when they are in first place - are useless and even painful, because fruitless. By faith we obtain the experience in our lives, the knowledge exist to describe this experience.

It is understandable why some knowledge is often considered dangerous. People start to believe in them and get in their lives relevant experience.

When knowledge is destructive, people who believe in them, get experience of destruction in their lives. We are the creators of our life ways and situations they encountered. A purpose of human life is to realize, to remember, to see that this is true from the beginning, and build their lives attracting in it only the experience needed to the soul and not retrace and not getting false (useless for the soul).

Change the formula of thinking that went into our own flesh and blood as a false understanding of what has happened: "I see, then, and I believe", to: "what I believe, that I see, I get into my life ", then choose what I really want to believe and miracles will not be long in coming.

Faith - this is our choice which experience we want to get in our lives.